In the "Free World" with
Freedom of Choice, Personal Preferences, and many Lifestyles to Choose along
the way of Life (or at least with the illusion of it all) ~ there is an Equal
amount of Force or Energy in the OTHER Direction wanting to abandon these Liberties in
search of (probably) Less Responsibility, Less Effort, Less Accountability, or it could boil down to sheer Laziness, or even being distracted by
Jealousy?
When I look back over just the Years I have lived, anything and everything that someone tries to obtain, achieve or accomplish is easier than the Generation before (especially in the 70's). There is a broader spectrum of Lifestyle choices accepted in Society than ever. Nothing is without conflict or struggle to Become. No one has ever survived depending solely upon sitting in a Lotus Position expecting things to just "work out" or come without effort, challenges, or conflict.
Having Balance and Direction enables people to HAVE the strength to handle these challenges & conflicts more & more efficiently. One of the Philosophies that I repeat to Everyone is "Work through Life's Challenges when it is HARD, and Enjoy it when it is Easier because it is not Natural to expect Life to be in either state Permanently". And when you don't do these things ~ there is no WAY to Blame.
The only things an Individual is actually Entitled to in this World is Your Life ~ What you've Earned, What you Include or Participate in, What you are Interested In or Learn, & What you Care About & Maintain. When People deliberately make choices that isolate Themselves or limit Themselves, no one ELSE can broaden THEIR Horizons FOR Them. This is what They have chosen for Themselves. No amount of Jealousy, Mid-life Crises or Hostility toward Others for what They are not "getting" out of their own Lives (or even more delusionally ~ out of Someone "else's") is going to Change this for Them.
It needs to be Realized what actually BELONGS in your Life, what is Apart of it ~ and what is NOT. An Exercise that helps in this Realization is to meditate & be honest about what you Genuinely Care about and what you are Genuinely Interested in. Human Beings are only capable of what is Humanly Possible. It is obvious that if you are not Genuinely Interested in Someone, and you also do not CARE what HAPPENS to this Person ~ They do not belong in your Life. This person cannot be Apart of your Life. It doesn't make sense to take things between each other very Personally.
Compassion only comes from Respect for Life. Human Beings are highly Intuitive. If you do not have Regard for Life, no one is capable of CARING about you.
Every Human Being has a Right to Walk along the Path of Life without Fear.
Most People have a Social Conscience & Tolerate others ~ they do not like to see others in Danger. But They ALSO are not going to put THEMSELVES at Risk or in Danger if you deliberately aren't making an effort on your part to pose no Threat.
Where it goes beyond Social Conscience is Mutual Responsibility. No one is Psychic. It is Your Responsibility to Play your own Role, and to Communicate that Role on each side. No one is capable of "knowing" until there is Understanding.
Obviously, things that are Apart of your actual LIFE & what you actually should be CARING ABOUT should be what is taken more Personally...
When Decisions are made along the way of Someone's Life, when Changes & Improvements happen, these things obviously MEAN something only to those that are APART of this person's Life. Keeping up with the Jone's is delusional when what is supposed to Naturally be apart of your own Life falls into place when you make PLANS and follow through with your concrete GOALS toward those Plans. It is delusional to constantly throw yourself and your Own Life's direction into Midlife Crises with every single person's Life that you encounter. It seems to be becoming an unrealistic Epidemic. It is also a pain in the Ass to every person around you until you can maintain equilibrium in your OWN Life direction.
There is nothing anyone can do outside of Healthy Ambition & your own Personal Best without being distracted from what you deserve in your own Potential in Life. No one ever Finishes all that they set out to Achieve, or ever gets all of the answers to everything they are interested in before they Die. It is always a "Work" in Progress.
To Support Others along the Way of Life through changes, it has to be Asked (they have to be ready for the Solution, not just comfortable with the Drama of the Problem itself), it needs to be Appreciated (without Respect for the help you are receiving, it isn't "helping" Anyone!), and the Person needs to CARE enough about the Solution to play the ROLE in solving their Problem (because it isn't your FAULT).
When Someone's Happiness depends on what Someone "else" is doing or where "they" are going, there is a Distraction from your Own Personal Path and usually from that point Nothing is ever "enough" ~ which is it's own Punishment in most cases. This is the very thing that keeps Society from fully Evolving into what it could be Full Spectrum. There is a Switch in the Circuit when someone switches their own Personal Path & Potential in Jealousy or distraction (instead of Participating in, or being Apart of). Eventually, it becomes a "Short Circuit". Just because it isn't Realistic. It is becoming obvious that No one really "wins" more.
Every Generation in Nature is Naturally more Resistant to Mental Slavery, Disease & Poverty.
Having Balance and Direction enables people to HAVE the strength to handle these challenges & conflicts more & more efficiently. One of the Philosophies that I repeat to Everyone is "Work through Life's Challenges when it is HARD, and Enjoy it when it is Easier because it is not Natural to expect Life to be in either state Permanently". And when you don't do these things ~ there is no WAY to Blame.
The only things an Individual is actually Entitled to in this World is Your Life ~ What you've Earned, What you Include or Participate in, What you are Interested In or Learn, & What you Care About & Maintain. When People deliberately make choices that isolate Themselves or limit Themselves, no one ELSE can broaden THEIR Horizons FOR Them. This is what They have chosen for Themselves. No amount of Jealousy, Mid-life Crises or Hostility toward Others for what They are not "getting" out of their own Lives (or even more delusionally ~ out of Someone "else's") is going to Change this for Them.
It needs to be Realized what actually BELONGS in your Life, what is Apart of it ~ and what is NOT. An Exercise that helps in this Realization is to meditate & be honest about what you Genuinely Care about and what you are Genuinely Interested in. Human Beings are only capable of what is Humanly Possible. It is obvious that if you are not Genuinely Interested in Someone, and you also do not CARE what HAPPENS to this Person ~ They do not belong in your Life. This person cannot be Apart of your Life. It doesn't make sense to take things between each other very Personally.
Compassion only comes from Respect for Life. Human Beings are highly Intuitive. If you do not have Regard for Life, no one is capable of CARING about you.
Every Human Being has a Right to Walk along the Path of Life without Fear.
Most People have a Social Conscience & Tolerate others ~ they do not like to see others in Danger. But They ALSO are not going to put THEMSELVES at Risk or in Danger if you deliberately aren't making an effort on your part to pose no Threat.
Where it goes beyond Social Conscience is Mutual Responsibility. No one is Psychic. It is Your Responsibility to Play your own Role, and to Communicate that Role on each side. No one is capable of "knowing" until there is Understanding.
Obviously, things that are Apart of your actual LIFE & what you actually should be CARING ABOUT should be what is taken more Personally...
When Decisions are made along the way of Someone's Life, when Changes & Improvements happen, these things obviously MEAN something only to those that are APART of this person's Life. Keeping up with the Jone's is delusional when what is supposed to Naturally be apart of your own Life falls into place when you make PLANS and follow through with your concrete GOALS toward those Plans. It is delusional to constantly throw yourself and your Own Life's direction into Midlife Crises with every single person's Life that you encounter. It seems to be becoming an unrealistic Epidemic. It is also a pain in the Ass to every person around you until you can maintain equilibrium in your OWN Life direction.
There is nothing anyone can do outside of Healthy Ambition & your own Personal Best without being distracted from what you deserve in your own Potential in Life. No one ever Finishes all that they set out to Achieve, or ever gets all of the answers to everything they are interested in before they Die. It is always a "Work" in Progress.
To Support Others along the Way of Life through changes, it has to be Asked (they have to be ready for the Solution, not just comfortable with the Drama of the Problem itself), it needs to be Appreciated (without Respect for the help you are receiving, it isn't "helping" Anyone!), and the Person needs to CARE enough about the Solution to play the ROLE in solving their Problem (because it isn't your FAULT).
When Someone's Happiness depends on what Someone "else" is doing or where "they" are going, there is a Distraction from your Own Personal Path and usually from that point Nothing is ever "enough" ~ which is it's own Punishment in most cases. This is the very thing that keeps Society from fully Evolving into what it could be Full Spectrum. There is a Switch in the Circuit when someone switches their own Personal Path & Potential in Jealousy or distraction (instead of Participating in, or being Apart of). Eventually, it becomes a "Short Circuit". Just because it isn't Realistic. It is becoming obvious that No one really "wins" more.
Every Generation in Nature is Naturally more Resistant to Mental Slavery, Disease & Poverty.
